I want a family one day and I know that I could never have children and take care of him.He is getting a vehicle that is modified for him to drive soon.And even there, they don't say anything unless you ask, which I did.
Adjusting to a quadriplegia lifestyle has been really hard for me.When I try to talk to him about it he just says it has to be done.I constantly have to clean up after him on top of everything else and he doesn’t care.It was chilly, so I was hesitating, and my friend playfully came up behind me and pushed me into the pool. Thank god I protected my head with my hands, but I went in at bad angle and broke my neck. I was in the ICU for 10 days and then I went to rehab for about 2 ½ months. Chris was by my side the whole time, no matter what. People are like, "It's amazing that he stayed with you!I immediately knew it was serious, even as I was on the side of the pool with the paramedics. Chris was camping with his dad three and a half hours away so when the accident happened we couldn't get in touch with him at first; he didn't know until the morning. " It's like people think someone with a disability isn't as deserving as someone who is able-bodied. That is so sad for them, because it goes to show that they have no idea what true love is. He was actually my first; I lost my virginity to him in college.