You must go the extra length to find out how they really feel.
Depending on your mate (if you’re a female), your Japanese husband may expect you to quit your job and become a house wife should you get married.
Warning: Japanese women are notorious for lying, concealing their real feelings and tolerating relationships which they are not happy to be in, which then leads to cheating (this is also true of Japanese men).
This fear of speaking up is part of their cultural upbringing.
It takes a very understanding, determined and giving person to be able to bridge the gap between these to very different societies; and indeed there is MUCH more to understand and learn that was listed in this article.
Unless both parties start industriously studying each others’ language and learn to communicate with each other the relationship will be over in less than a month.Whether this is good or not depends on what you’re looking for.Aside from the man-whores and sluts, the Japanese take sex and relationships very seriously so if you want to have a successful long term relationship with a Japanese it is necessary that you follow some rules: Rule (men): Before you kiss or try anything physical you must communicate your feelings.Be prepared to be disabused, for whatever images you have conjured in your mind about finding love in Japan are certain to be skewed and not realistic, that is unless you’ve lived in the country before and you know the score.This isn’t to say that you as a foreigner can’t find love in Japan, because some people do indeed have success, but it does mean that you need to ‘clear your mind’ and realize that there is much that is different and much to learn on the subject of love in Japan.